The “Little Black Dress”


 It’s Friday everyone! I have a quick styling tip for you ladies for tonight! I’m pretty sure some of you ladies will have last minute plans for tonight and probably have no ideas what to wear. If you can’t find anything in your closet, then a “little black dress” is always a great option to wear!!!

3 quick tips of complete your whole look:

1.)  Add accessories to your outfit

2.) Makeup tip: Add a bold lip color on your lips and to enhance the eyes you can add a classic wing eyeliner.

Lastly 3.) let your hair down!! And remember to be fierce ladies!!!

Here is my “little black dress” inspiration:

Top 7 styles of Summer 2017

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Omg it is already August?!?! I can’t believe we are half way through the summer.  I would like to share my top seven style of this summer. Like I mentioned before I don’t like to commit to one specific  style…With my personality have many. I love bold colors, wild prints, and pretty much anything whimsical. I like to wear anything that makes me feel confident and comfortable.


Top 7 styles of this summer

1.)

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I found this one of kind lilac backless mini dress on sale for $17.99 at Urban Outfitters!!


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This is a perfect summer dress. This is a transitional piece for almost any occasions. I can wear this during the day or night. I can wear this dress at a summer cookout/ BBQ or to a club for a girls night outing. My favorite part of this dress is the detailed back. When I wore this summer I felt sexy and confident. I also bought the same dress in black!


2.)

I began to wear more jumpsuits this summer. Like the one I wore above, I love the vibrant colors and the dreamy floral print.  Plus I felt so tall when I wore this jumpsuit! I found this lovely garment at Marshalls.


3.)

One of my favorite style for this summer is off the shoulder tops!! I’ve been going to the gym all summer long!  Now I can show off my hard work! I love exposing my shoulders and collar bones.

This blouse is by Socialite Clothing. I found this piece of gem at Nordstrom Rack during the Clear the Rack sale! I bought it for $12!! I love the dramatic ruffles πŸ™‚

These off the shoulder tops are to die for! So freaking cute! I can wear these tops with anything. I could pair up my top with a pair of pants,a pair of shorts, or even a skirt.


4.)
This is one of my favorite style of this summer. I wore this outfit last week. It was a gloomy and chilly day. Ande definitely not a typical summer weather in Connecticut.


So I wore this lovely dusty pink Free People sweater to keep me warm and a pair of AG black skinny to add more drama to my look. Whole outfit under $60.


I added a light delicate blue bralette since the back of the sweater has a deep cut.


5.)

I love this style. This a-line dress cold shoulder dress cut to show a flash of shoulder and also elongate my legs. This jewel-neck shift dress makes a chic and simple addition to your closet.


All you need to do is accessories to complete your look. I usually like to add a bold color to my accessories.


6.)
I wore this outfit to work. I found my floral print skater skirt at Marshalls for $10. I found my red blouse at Nordstrom rack for $15. I tried to matched my hat with a pair of cognac booties.


7.)


I wore this outfit to a friend’s BBQ. I always like wearing stripes patterned shorts. I tried to matched my flowy top with my black and white shorts. This is a simple, but very chic look! This whole outfit is under $20.


 

Hope you all enjoy reading this post! I hope you all like my 7 styles and trends

xoxo #phashiontherapy

Floral Print Jumpsuit


I never thought I could ever pull off wearing a jumpsuit. I’m only 5 feet tall! Like I said I never thought I could wear jumpsuits because I was afraid I was too short to wear these attires. Until now….Thank you for cropped jumpsuits!!! The lengths fits perfectly on me! (Yes I know I can shorten the pants length to make them cropped but I’m too lazy…) haha


(Style by me)

I found this gorgeous floral print jumpsuit at Marshalls. I love the flower patterns and the bright pink accent on this garment! It’s too cute!! Guess how much I bought them for?!?!!! This cost only $19.99!!! I want more of these jumpsuits! I’m  telling you guys Marshalls always have major deals, including on designers!!!  I’m pretty sure it’s not going to be my last trip to Marshall for this summer. It’s only the beginning. I can tell you all that I received many compliments when I  wore this jumpsuit to work.

Xoxo #phashiontherapy

My “Quarter Life Crisis” Story

This year I am 25 within five years I will be 30, which is pretty scary to think about! I don’t know if anyone experienced or dealt with “quarter life crisis”in their life, it really sucks! Let me break this down for you… what is “quarter life crisis”???…

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According to a recent study about emerging adults and young adults “somewhere between mid twenties and thirties, they might be experiencing a serious low point in their life. It could be a trial of confused identity, misguided purpose, awkward and hopeless transition.” And, if you’re anything like me, you feel lost, anxious, and panicked.


7 reasons why I might be experiencing  “quarter life crisis” right now…

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1.) This is a confusing time for me. I hate the feeling being stuck in one place and not moving forward to another. And that’s not normal to me! I feel very lost….

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2.) I don’t know what I want to do with my life. Some of my friends who are fresh out of college are fortunate to land their perfect job with full benefits and a solid career plans. For me, I haven’t find mine yet!!! I am concern I won’t succeed before I’m 30. I don’t like to compare myself to other people, but sometimes It’s difficult not to compare myself…I do understand competition is a part of nature and I can never avoid it..

3.) Most of My friends around me are either getting engaged, married or having a baby. For me, I am not engaged or getting married anytime soon. I am no where ready for marriage. Even though I do have my fairy tale dream wedding (sigggghhh)…. I am tired of people asking me when am I ever getting marry… Sometimes I wish everyone can back off and relax! Only time will come…

4.) Yes, I have a loving boyfriend who can always cheer me up….And don’t get me wrong  I love him and adore him, but sometimes it’s not enough. I need to have spent quality time with my girl friends.  I want to be able to share my feelings and experiences because only my “girl” friends can understand what I’m going through. Sometimes men don’t understand us “women” go through on a regular basis.  It’s hard to relate. 

I find it difficult to make friends as an adult, especially with females!!!!. We are so catty!!! My circle of friends is getting smaller and smaller by the minute. It’s hard find friends trustworthy and loyal who I can depend on. Most of my friends have boyfriends and have their own priorities, sometime  I am afraid distance and time will drive friendships away without any explanations or reasons. Or Perhaps maybe my personality have change or we don’t share the same level of interests anymore …. Whatever Who knows ..

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5.) Do I want to stay in Connecticut for the rest of my life?! I have no idea! I have been living in Connecticut since I was 5 years old… I don’t know where I will be living in the next 5 years..  I would love to move to a different state. I don’t mind moving to Texas… Or I always want to live in New York or Boston, but I never got the nerve or courage to make it happen. Shoot… I’m 25 years old and I’m still living with my parents (sighhhh). Plus I’m not financially stable yet…

6.) I hate the facts as I get older, I get hit with more responsibility and with more responsibility usually leads to more bills…… so looks like I will be broke for life.

7.) Sometimes I have moments where I feel like I don’t give a fuck anymore. As in I want to give up or run away from reality. I’ve experienced my high moments and low moments. There were some moments where I felt anxious or angry at the strangest time… I felt like I’m going to blow up because I have a lot of things bottled up inside and all I want is to scream on the top of my lungs!  Or I dealt having random panick attacks  ( Don’t  worry I’m not depressed). I’m okay.

Sometime I have moments where I like to go with the flow, going on spontaneous things without having any thoughts and negative repercussions … I called this “yoloing”, which means I don’t care what other people think. And just “do  me” and keep moving forward.


The reason why I am writing this post about my experience with “quarter life crisis” is to share my story and also bring awareness about this social issue. I’m not trying to draw attention to myself.  Many millennial from the age 25 to 35  had either dealt with  “quarter life crisis” or currently experiencing it right now.  It is  common to feel confused or lost.

Hopefully this social struggle is only temporary. I will eventually find my strengths and push through my problems.

And please don’t you worry, you are not alone…. you shouldn’t feel lonely.

   Xoxo #phashiontherapy

Must-Have Summer Items: Off The Shoulder Tops

Ladies!!! Off the shoulder tops are back!!Β  It’s sort of funny because a lot of women wore these type of tops in the 90’s.. Now these tops are making a comeback! Off the shoulders tops are one of my favorite summer pieces for this summer! And also most definitely must-have items for this summer!!


 

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Likes these two pictures above! I can either wear an off the shoulder top with a skirt or even a pair of dark skinny jeans! These kind of tops are easy to put an outfit together! Ladies, we can wear the off the shoulder top to any type of occasion from a casual event or a formal occasion. All you need is an awesome pair of shoes to finish off the look! Doesn’t matter what kind….


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If I want my wardrobe to look edgy and cool.. I can add on an oversized olive bomber jacket, some classy cat eyed sunglasses, and lastly some pair of silver hoop earrings.

Hope you guys enjoy this styling tip! Thank you for viewing my post and page πŸ™‚

 

ο»ΏMen’s Wear: 4th of July Edition

I can’t believe 4th of July weekend is this week! Ladies if you’re having a difficult time picking out Β last minute clothes for your boyfriends outfits for this upcoming weekend…. I have a couple of styling tips that can help you narrow down your options.

I work at the Men’s department at Nordstrom for about a year and a half now. And a lot of my customers do not know we carry merchandises for under $50! Ladies, I bet you all that I can put together outfits for under $100 for your man for this upcoming 4th of July Weekend!!


Here are some of my Β styling tips can help you ladies narrow down your options:

All of these outfits are by Nordstrom, 1901: Available Exclusively at Nordstrom

I love fun t-shirt designs! why not have fun with prints like this crew neck t-shirt! Super fun, comfy t-shirt with retro casual trend (true to size)

1901 Westport shorts: $49.50

Casual flat front cotton-woven shorts

Geometric printed T-shirt: $29.50


This star print woven shirt and star print cotton woven shorts matches with the 4th of July theme!Β Β  If your guy like something more simple then you can match the star print shirt with plain grey cotton shorts. If you want to be more bold than you can also add a pair of red shorts to show off your boyfriend’s patriotic side! Why not have fun with this outfit!

1901 Star Print woven shirt$49.50

1901 Star Print shorts- $49.50


By the way, I’m totally obsessed with the striped linen shorts and the floral shorts combination!!! This is super cool!! Such a fun outfit to wear! DO NOT BE AFRAID TO BE BOLD!!!

I have two options with this outfit… Both looks are a bit bond. These two outfits are for a guy who is fashion-forward and trendsetters. He likes to stand out from the crowd and isn’t shy about wild floral prints and colors.

Wallpaper Floral Print Shirt$49.50

Stripe Linen Shorts$49.50


This outfit is a clean and casual look. The shirt has touchable nice texture, which adds a little of an edge. Perfect outfit to wear on a date during the summer! Ladies you can add a bright color pair of shorts to spice the whole wardrobe.

Jacquard Trim Fit Sport Shirt-$49.50

Teal Westport Shorts$49.50


Here are some Men’s footwear ideas:

“Bermuda’ Driving shoe- Marine Nubuck & Tobacco Nubuck$89.95

This is a casual driving shoe that seamlessly blends classic style and can be wear for any casual occasion.

“Merick” Derby Shoe$110 (this your go-to derby for any casual outfit)

Jefferson Buck Shoe$54.98 (Two-tone construction defines a casually charming buck shoe shaped in a smart silhouette)


I hope you guys enjoy reading this post! I hope my suggestions is helpful!!!

xoxo #Phashiontherapy

Motivation MondayΒ 


I know the weekend flew by wayyyy to fast. And it’s time we all have to get back to our reality. But don’t forget this weekend is 4th of July weekend! So I do know majority of us will have a long four days weekend!!!

Here is a little encouragement and love from me to help cure the Monday blues that we are all having. Β I hope you have a bless Β and beautiful day. We all should appreciate for living another brand new day. Breathing in the fresh air that we’re all breathing. Having the opportunity to look around to our surroundings; gazing at the horizon, the flowers and birds in the sky, the clear blue sky and the people around us. We will never know with endless of opportunities that can happen to us in one day….All we need is to have hope! Remember we all can do whatever we want to do if we put our mind into. Don’t let negativity hinders us from reaching our goals and achievements. Including small goals too! Β We do not need any negativity in our lives! And remember to push through and say

I CAN and I Will“!!!

Xoxo 😘 #phashiontherapy