My Inner Circle

I’ve been doing a lot of soul-searching and focusing on what is important to me. I also noticed that my relationships with my friends has changed. Of course I have different groups of friends. I noticed either some of us had grown apart or maybe we don’t share the same level of interests or hobbies anymore. I am also surprised some of my closest relationships that I had since my childhood also faded away. I know some of you guys may think I have a lot of friends in my life, but to be frank I don’t. I have to admit it hurts sometimes….. I tend to be get emotional when I loose a friend.

It is hard for me to maintain my female friendships, especially in my 20s. This is the time of my life where I want to share my experiences, my success, my journeys with my friends. Trust is also very important to me and I find it challenging for me to trust anyone around me. Sometimes I feel lonely. I like to be invited to social gatherings and special occasions even if I don’t show up or I couldn’t attend at least someone was thinking about me. I hate being left out from a social gathering or from a group. And It’s not a great feeling either.

I don’t know if any of you ladies can relate to me, but let me ask you all this. How important does friendships means to you? Let me be specific, how important is your female friendships? Ask yourself these questions….Who do you think are your true friends? Are your so-call “friends ” reliable? Do you have a friend that you can trust to keep your darkest secrets? Who do consider is your best friend? When was the last time you asked yourself, why did some of my friendships fizzled or dissolved away?

It is frustrating to me. Sometimes I never had a clear explanation why things ended a certain way. I do understand we all are busy with our separate lives. Majority of us have full-time jobs and have other responsibilities to prioritize. Some of us have boyfriends and girlfriends that we want to focus on, but it also important to focus on your friends to make sure we continue to stay connected whenever we need each other or want to see each other.

I tend to ask myself, did I do something wrong? or Did I say something wrong to make them not want talk to me? I have to put on a fake face pretend everything is okay, which I really hate! The last thing I don’t like being called is being two face. I’m not trying to point any fingers or targeting anyone. I understand certain friendships aren’t meant to last forever. I learned over the last few years, a few of my friends changed. They finally showed me their true colors of themselves. Some of those changes I didn’t like or understand which results our friendships to fade away. I’ve already tried to do my part to mend my relationships and even tried to stay connected. I’m getting frustrated of being the only person reaching out. Come on! It’s not a one way street here! I’m over everything honestly…

In a week I will be turning 26 and I decided to turn a new leaf in my life. I decided to let go all of the negativity I’ve experienced with with myself in the last year. I’m going to cherish and appreciate all of the friendships I’ve developed whether my friends are from work, from school or etc… and also I will pay attention to the people who are in here for me and want to be around me. I believe there is a reason for every person who walked into my life and each person carried a learning lesson. What I need right now is to surround myself with positive and encouraging people that will push me to reach my goals and dreams. I’m not forcing anyone to be my friend, if anyone feel they are being forced to be my friend then you all can leave because I don’t have room for any negativity nor dramas in my life! The last thing I want to do is set expectations on friends, and if they don’t meet those expectations then I will get disappointed. I don’t need anymore stress in my life to worry about. I’m done. Whatever is done! I don’t anyone to waste my time or energy!!!

Mikasa Beauty Brushes

A few months back I got an email from the marketing director at Mikasa Beauty. They recognized that I have a strong social media platform and wanted to create a collaboration with me to introduce Mikasa Beauty Collection. Of course I couldn’t say no to them. I decided to purchases this Mikasa techni brushes set, it comes with four brushes. They even sent me a free lemon drop makeup blender (Mikasa 100)! I recommend you ladies try out these brushes!


aI’m glad Mikasa Beauty connected with me because I saw these type of brushes everywhere on social media and I was dying to buy some! I absolutely love love love these brushes! These techni brushes are made 100% synthetic fibers that create ultra-dense and soft brushes. I’ve been learning how to do facial contours. These techni brushes are perfect for applying and blending both powder and cream products to all areas to the face.


Mikasa Techni brush #06

This rounded brush is great for application of blush, foundation, contour or setting powder. Also good for blending to the smalls areas of the face and cheeks.


This Mikasa Techni Brush #02 is the perfect multi-purpose tool. It can also be used to apply a soft wash of color to the eyelid or brow bone. It easily blends powder or cream eye shadows, face powders, and liquid or cream-concealers in the hard to reach contours of the face.


This Mikasa Techni brush #L2 is perfect for creating firm, precise line along the upper and lower lash lines. Also defines and fill brows, and can be used to define the lips.


This Mikasa Techni Brush #C2 is use to applies and blends product into the eyelids crease. This small round brush with a curved dome tip can also be used to apply and blend around small areas for example around the eyes or nostrils.


Click on the link below to view more Mikasa Beauty Products!

https://www.mikasabeauty.com/

New announcements for Phashion Therapy! 



I’m super excited to announced to this! Either this week or next week I will be updating my website/blog. There will be new pages and additions on my blog. There will be a separate page about my daily outfit of the day looks & trends. There will be a page about my hidden beauty trends and secrets. Also a page for my food reviews And the last page will be about my previous travel experiences and upcoming vacations! So stay tune 😊💁🏻
I hope I can build a my own business one day… 🙏✨✨✨

I’m super excited to announced to this! Either this week or next week I will be updating my website/blog. There will be new pages and additions on my blog. There will be a separate page about my daily outfit of the day looks & trends. There will be a page about my hidden beauty trends and secrets. Also a page for my food reviews And the last page will be about my previous travel experiences and upcoming vacations! So stay tune 😊💁🏻
I hope I can build a my own business one day… 🙏✨✨✨

Must-Have Summer Items: Off The Shoulder Tops

Ladies!!! Off the shoulder tops are back!!  It’s sort of funny because a lot of women wore these type of tops in the 90’s.. Now these tops are making a comeback! Off the shoulders tops are one of my favorite summer pieces for this summer! And also most definitely must-have items for this summer!!


 

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Likes these two pictures above! I can either wear an off the shoulder top with a skirt or even a pair of dark skinny jeans! These kind of tops are easy to put an outfit together! Ladies, we can wear the off the shoulder top to any type of occasion from a casual event or a formal occasion. All you need is an awesome pair of shoes to finish off the look! Doesn’t matter what kind….


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If I want my wardrobe to look edgy and cool.. I can add on an oversized olive bomber jacket, some classy cat eyed sunglasses, and lastly some pair of silver hoop earrings.

Hope you guys enjoy this styling tip! Thank you for viewing my post and page 🙂

 

Keep Moving Forward

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The “keep moving forward” quote by Walt Disney is one of my favorite quote of all time. This quote is my life motto. I even have a tattoo of an arrow, which is inspired by this quote. I know it’s kind of corny, since this quote is an inspiration behind one of Disney’s animated movie, ” Meet the Robinsons”…. Which is also one of my favorite animated movie. I love the meanings behind this message.

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How this “keep moving forward” quote impacts on me:

I can relate myself with this message. I’m always an optimistic person. I try my best to remain positive, even if there’s some real dark days where I just feel like my story is falling apart in everything I do. However I eventually I find a way to overcome my situation whether it’s an obstacle, an problem, a disagreement, or a mistake.  I usually take every experience as a learning lesson, even horrible experiences and continue to move forward without  looking back to my past. 

 I’m always curious. I am open to new adventures. I am always been a big dreamer with ambitious goals. I am never afraid to jump into new opportunity without a doubt. By taking risks, I would never know where my adventure could lead me.


I  am never shy meeting new people. When I see a stranger, I would greet them with a smile on my face: I’m open to forming new relationships with people I met. I learned to accept sometime friendships doesn’t always last. Sometime certain people aren’t meant to be in my life forever.

 Life is be too short to hold on to any negative memories. It’s not worth to hold on to grudges and sometime I have to let things go in order for me to move forward. I try my best to appreciate what I have, rather than wishing for what I “should” have because I can’t always get whatever I want in life.

 

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Must Have Item: Army Green Bomber Jacket 

 

Every girl should own a bomber jacket! Especially an army green or olive bomber jacket! This is another perfect piece for the summer…. Since it’s a light jacket to begin with. Army green or olive green is a popular color! Which I am totally obsessed with!!! It is a  edgy and fun color. You can almost match any color with army green/ olive! I can bet you I can pull 10 different outfits together with this army green jacket from a casual occasion to a formal occasion!


I’ve been searching for the perfect olive/ army green jacket for the longest!! I finally found it randomly  at TJ MAXX!!  I bought my jacket in a size medium so that I can wear it to be oversized. The price is super affordable, only $19.99!!!


Outfit of the day

Top: BP Nordstrom $20

Moto Style Leggings: Topshop $40

Sneakers: All White Stan Smith Adidas $50

Lace Bralette: BP Nordstrom $15.60

Jacket: TJ Maxx $19.99

Sunglasses: Gucci $95

Purse: Goodwill $7

 


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Hope you enjoy reading this post!!!

Xoxo Phashion Therapy

Street Style: Sneakers Addition

Hello Everyone!! Happy New Year! Can’t you believe it’s 2017!!!!  I know it has been a while since the last time I wrote. I want to share you guys one of my outfit of the day look that I put together this past weekend. My boyfriend bought me a pair of Tubular sneakers by Adidas for Christmas that I absolutely love! I know he has a great taste in style! I think they’re super dope and I received many  complements when I wear these sneakers. I normally don’t wear sneakers often, but I do now.

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SO I put together a cool comfy look to match with my  Tubular sneakers from Adidas…

Black High Waisted Jeans  – Forever 21

Cool funky Sweater with cute French phrase “L`AMOUR”- H&M

Denim Jacket with Leather sleeves- Bycorpus ( Urban Outfitter)

Black choker necklace – Topshop

Hoop Earrings

Tubular Adidas Sneakers

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