My “Quarter Life Crisis” Story

This year I am 25 within five years I will be 30, which is pretty scary to think about! I don’t know if anyone experienced or dealt with “quarter life crisis”in their life, it really sucks! Let me break this down for you… what is “quarter life crisis”???…

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According to a recent study about emerging adults and young adults “somewhere between mid twenties and thirties, they might be experiencing a serious low point in their life. It could be a trial of confused identity, misguided purpose, awkward and hopeless transition.” And, if you’re anything like me, you feel lost, anxious, and panicked.


7 reasons why I might be experiencing  “quarter life crisis” right now…

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1.) This is a confusing time for me. I hate the feeling being stuck in one place and not moving forward to another. And that’s not normal to me! I feel very lost….

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2.) I don’t know what I want to do with my life. Some of my friends who are fresh out of college are fortunate to land their perfect job with full benefits and a solid career plans. For me, I haven’t find mine yet!!! I am concern I won’t succeed before I’m 30. I don’t like to compare myself to other people, but sometimes It’s difficult not to compare myself…I do understand competition is a part of nature and I can never avoid it..

3.) Most of My friends around me are either getting engaged, married or having a baby. For me, I am not engaged or getting married anytime soon. I am no where ready for marriage. Even though I do have my fairy tale dream wedding (sigggghhh)…. I am tired of people asking me when am I ever getting marry… Sometimes I wish everyone can back off and relax! Only time will come…

4.) Yes, I have a loving boyfriend who can always cheer me up….And don’t get me wrong  I love him and adore him, but sometimes it’s not enough. I need to have spent quality time with my girl friends.  I want to be able to share my feelings and experiences because only my “girl” friends can understand what I’m going through. Sometimes men don’t understand us “women” go through on a regular basis.  It’s hard to relate.

I find it difficult to make friends as an adult, especially with females!!!!. We are so catty!!! My circle of friends is getting smaller and smaller by the minute. It’s hard find friends trustworthy and loyal who I can depend on. Most of my friends have boyfriends and have their own priorities, sometime  I am afraid distance and time will drive friendships away without any explanations or reasons. Or Perhaps maybe my personality have change or we don’t share the same level of interests anymore …. Whatever Who knows ..

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5.) Do I want to stay in Connecticut for the rest of my life?! I have no idea! I have been living in Connecticut since I was 5 years old… I don’t know where I will be living in the next 5 years..  I would love to move to a different state. I don’t mind moving to Texas… Or I always want to live in New York or Boston, but I never got the nerve or courage to make it happen. Shoot… I’m 25 years old and I’m still living with my parents (sighhhh). Plus I’m not financially stable yet…

6.) I hate the facts as I get older, I get hit with more responsibility and with more responsibility usually leads to more bills…… so looks like I will be broke for life.

7.) Sometimes I have moments where I feel like I don’t give a fuck anymore. As in I want to give up or run away from reality. I’ve experienced my high moments and low moments. There were some moments where I felt anxious or angry at the strangest time… I felt like I’m going to blow up because I have a lot of things bottled up inside and all I want is to scream on the top of my lungs!  Or I dealt having random panick attacks  ( Don’t  worry I’m not depressed). I’m okay.

Sometime I have moments where I like to go with the flow, going on spontaneous things without having any thoughts and negative repercussions … I called this “yoloing”, which means I don’t care what other people think. And just “do  me” and keep moving forward.


The reason why I am writing this post about my experience with “quarter life crisis” is to share my story and also bring awareness about this social issue. I’m not trying to draw attention to myself.  Many millennial from the age 25 to 35  had either dealt with  “quarter life crisis” or currently experiencing it right now.  It is  common to feel confused or lost.

Hopefully this social struggle is only temporary. I will eventually find my strengths and push through my problems.

And please don’t you worry, you are not alone…. you shouldn’t feel lonely.

   Xoxo #phashiontherapy

Motivation Monday 


I know the weekend flew by wayyyy to fast. And it’s time we all have to get back to our reality. But don’t forget this weekend is 4th of July weekend! So I do know majority of us will have a long four days weekend!!!

Here is a little encouragement and love from me to help cure the Monday blues that we are all having.  I hope you have a bless  and beautiful day. We all should appreciate for living another brand new day. Breathing in the fresh air that we’re all breathing. Having the opportunity to look around to our surroundings; gazing at the horizon, the flowers and birds in the sky, the clear blue sky and the people around us. We will never know with endless of opportunities that can happen to us in one day….All we need is to have hope! Remember we all can do whatever we want to do if we put our mind into. Don’t let negativity hinders us from reaching our goals and achievements. Including small goals too!  We do not need any negativity in our lives! And remember to push through and say

I CAN and I Will“!!!

Xoxo 😘 #phashiontherapy

12 Things You Didn’t know about Me…


I’m left handed and I’m double jointed

I hate broken promises…

I don’t like it when people who lie or try to deceive me for their advantage.

I love food… I still don’t know what is my favorite food. I still can’t make up my mind

I can beat anyone in a belching contest.. All I need is a can of soda 😂

I do not take confrontations well because I am very defensive with myself. Why you ask? Because growing up I was bullied…

I have many insecurities about myself sometimes I keep it in.

I do not share or express my emotions well. I tend to bottled everything in until I explode.

I love doing spontaneous things and adventures because I believe life is too short. I like to live in the moment, which sometimes can lead to consequences….(Yikes)

Sometimes I wish my mouth has a filter…because I tend to say what ever comes out of my mouth before thinking about it. I can’t help it, I’m very honest. ( so if I ever hurt anyones’ feeling with my words… I’m sorry I don’t mine to 😞

I hate the sound of crunching styrofoams and the sound of fork scratching on a plate.

I’m afraid of failures.

Street Style: Sneakers Addition

Hello Everyone!! Happy New Year! Can’t you believe it’s 2017!!!!  I know it has been a while since the last time I wrote. I want to share you guys one of my outfit of the day look that I put together this past weekend. My boyfriend bought me a pair of Tubular sneakers by Adidas for Christmas that I absolutely love! I know he has a great taste in style! I think they’re super dope and I received many  complements when I wear these sneakers. I normally don’t wear sneakers often, but I do now.

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SO I put together a cool comfy look to match with my  Tubular sneakers from Adidas…

Black High Waisted Jeans  – Forever 21

Cool funky Sweater with cute French phrase “L`AMOUR”- H&M

Denim Jacket with Leather sleeves- Bycorpus ( Urban Outfitter)

Black choker necklace – Topshop

Hoop Earrings

Tubular Adidas Sneakers

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I hope you enjoy reading this post! Let me know what you guys think!

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xoxo PT

Happy Anniversary Phashion Therapy!!

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WOw! I can’t believe it has been a year since I started this blog! I launched Phashion Therapy using WordPress on April 4, 2014! I’m so glad I decided to create my own site! Over the year, I wrote 63 posts and gain over 5,333 views!!! The posts I wrote were about fashion and beauty tips, makeup reviews, food/restaurants reviews and to my daily outfit of the day looks, and more.

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I am proud of myself and it feels awesome! I never would thought so many people were interested to  read about my point of views, inspirations, my ideas, my knowledge, and what I was passionate for!  With all the supports I received over the year gave me confidence in myself. This actually eliminated some of my insecurities about myself. And words can’t  seem to explain how I feel…But it’s definitely a great feeling!

This is only the beginning of my journey. I am motivated and aspire to be someone great one day. So, I will continue to write and find new inspirations for me to write. I hope one day that my blog site, my brand, and my name will be known to everyone. I have high expectations for myself, so I will continue to encourage myself to be the best I can be! I will get there eventually!

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Fall style: How to make sweaters look fashionable and sexy?!

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This sweater is honestly so cute and to die for! The best thing about this sweater is the heart-shaped cut out in the back of the sweater! This sweater reads simplicity, classy, cozy, and elegance. The heart-shaped cut out adds a bit of sex-appeal and an edge. I must have this sweater!!! I”m obsessed! #Musthave #outfitoftheday


I know it’s difficult sometimes to put together an amazing outfit that will keep us warm at the same time. A “sweater” is a “must have” item that every girl should own in her closet. Sweaters will always keep everyone warm but also can make any ladies looking stylish. If you have a difficult time putting an outfit together with a sweater, here are 5 different ways to wear a sweater:

Style #1

 A big sweater (over-sized), a pair of black leggings, infinity scarf (any color of your choice),a cute over-sized tote bag, and a pair of lace up combat boots =  a simple fall outfit that you can find in your own closet:

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Style #2

This is a simple outfit to pull together and look fantastic! You definitely can wear this outfit on a casual date! I really love the western style boots, it adds a bit of personality! Cream colored sweater, scarf, boot socks (legwarmers), and brown colored chestnut boots!

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Style #3

This outfit is an example of sexy and edgy! Perfect night out outfit! Every girl should own a pair of black leather/ synthetic leather pants or leggings!! Add a pair of black heels or black stiletto pumps will make all gentlemen heads turn! You will be the spotlight for the night!

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Style #4

This is my favorite ’90s trend! It is back! I  love wearing crop top sweaters with skirts because I can always accessorize with cool-looking tights or leggings. This is an example of ready to wear. You can wear this outfit during the day and night. You don’t need to change your outfit! By the way, I’m obsessed with those shoes!! Those are to die for!!!

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Style #5

Accessories will always transform your whole outfit! You can always wear leg-warmers and long riding boots with sweater. All you need is a pair of leggings!

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Style #6

 Effortless is name for this look. Neutral colored over-sized sweater, a pair of dark destroyed jeans, a pair of laced-up boots (combat boots) or long riding boots

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Style #6

Visual board for a cozy look: A pair of dark skinny jeans, an over-sized burgundy colored sweater, an infiniti scarf, & a pair of combat boots (any color of your boots)

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Thank you for reading this post & visiting my blog!! I hope these styles are helpful!

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Modani Furniture: Collaboration Interior Design

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I was given a major opportunity to design my own mood boards or styles board to share in a post on my blog about Modani Modern Furniture using the attachments that have been provided to me.
I always have a love for interior designing. I always dream of designing and creating a vision for my own home one day to showcase my style and creativity. After participating in this challenge, I believe I have a natural talent for interior design. And I could imagine myself establishing a career in interior design.

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Modani  modern furniture store specializes in “contemporary designs”, some of Modani collections are Minimalist, Baroque, contemporary, Indian, Eclectic and Zen designs. I have to say I felt very inspired by this modern furniture store for its contemporary designs. Modani is located everywhere in the United States, from New York City, LA to Miami. Modani has the most fashionable and trendisest items. The furniture is cutting edge and has its own sophistication. I can totally picture myself shopping in this furniture store for my future home one day because Modani captured my style and lifestyle.

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Modani has constantly embedded in the world of interior design to select the trendiest items, from the most renowned designers of the last 50 years to young artists’ new lifestyle concepts. All of the furniture is high-quality certified. Modani has set a high status or expectation of quality to keep increasing customer experience, which what I look for when shopping for certain interior designs for my future home because they believe this is the best way for them to run their business.

If you are interested in learning more about Modani, click this link to learn more


Stores Opening Soon:

Dallas, TX
(Opening Soon)
4700 Alpha Road
Dallas, TX 75244
Phone: 469 249-1218

San Francisco, CA
(Opening Soon)
200 Kansas St
San Francisco, CA 94124
Phone: 415 429-3882

Toronto, Canada
(Now Open)
1400 Castlefield Avenue
Toronto, Canada M6B 4N4
Phone: 416 256-3111

Aventura, FL
(Opening Soon)


You can also can take a virtual tour of any of our stores:

Miami, FL
(Virtual tour available)
2898 Biscayne Blvd
Miami, FL 33137
Phone: 305 403-1838
Los Angeles, CA
(Virtual tour available)
8873 W Sunset Blvd
West Hollywood, CA 90069
Phone: 310 652-2323
Houston, TX
(Virtual tour available)
5370 Westheimer Rd
Houston , TX 77056
Phone: 713 622-2900
New York City, NY
(Virtual tour available)
40 E 19TH ST
New York, NY 10003
Phone: 212 780-1800
Chicago, IL
(Virtual tour available)
1574 N Kingsbury St
Chicago, IL 60642
Phone: 312 867-7404
Atlanta, GA
(Virtual tour available)
3221 Peachtree RD NE
Atlanta, GA 30305
Phone: 404 841-5900

Below are a couple of my mood boards or style boards for a living room, emphasizing in contemporary designs, I chose my favorite “living room item to used as the centerpiece of my style and then chose “accessories to complete my look:

ALL White -Out

#1 White Monocro couch, #5 White Savina Lounge Chair, & #3 Caterina glass coffee table are the center piece for this style of contemporary Design. My inspiriation behind this interior design is having most of the furniture to be all white, grey,dark grey and silver color scheme. There is something about having the room all white make everything look so chic and sophisticated, but yet so simple. The accessories will totally transform the living room. The accessories that I chose were #17 suitcase shelves, #16 or #15 rug, #4 ceiling lamp, #8 crystal vase, #7 Eko Lamp, #4 Caravagio mirror, #10 Gabriela pillow, #11Fabiana pillow or #12 & #13 pillow.

bohemian inspired

This interior design style is inspire by one my friend. She has one of the most trendiest style, specializing in Bohemian style. This style is effortless, colorful and fun! The center piece for this living room design is #1 White Phantom couch and # 2 Caterina glass coffee table. Two of my favorite accessories pieces in this design would be #6 red colorful-beading stool and #11 red colorful-beading pillow. These accessories pieces add character to this living room set. For example  a pair of red pumps would totally transform to your all-black outfit.

gray and black inspired

This is grey & black contemporary inspired design for a living room. It’s simple, but chic and sophisticated. With a pop of mustard yellow and teal will bring the room back to life. This type of style is very masculine, so even a male can use this contemporary design. The center pieces for this look are #1Black Monacro couch and #4 Caterine glass coffee table.

grey and white inspired

This gray & white inspired look is design for a recent undergraduate that is searching for a living room of her dream in New York City. She is very eager and eccentric to establish a career in New York City, mainly working in the Fashion industry. This modern and simple design is perfect for her lifestyle. The center pieces for this look are #1 White Phantom Couch and #2 Caterina Glass coffee table.

monocromatic style

This is a monochromatic inspired look is a mature and masculine design that can be suit for a man or a woman. There is something so chic and sophisticated about having the color schemes for the living room to be a combination of black, gray, and white. I tried to keep everything monochromatic or in the same color scheme. This design is a upscale and high-in lifestyle. The centerpieces for this look are #1 grey Bergamo couch and #2 Caterina glass coffee table.

neutral tones inspired

This contemporary design is inspired by neutral colors and earth tones. The color scheme for this design is brown, white, teal/turquoise, and grey.  Adding a bright color like teal or turquoise to the style adds more character to the living room. The center pieces for this design are #1Brown Phantom Couch, # 2 Caterine glass coffee table, #6 Savina Brown stool and #Savina brown Lounge Chair.


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